How To Find Mr. Right Online (And Offline)

So, you’re online looking for Mr. Right.

You must approach it with your mind and not your heart, you can find Mr. Right online.

Treat the search as a fact finding mission. Ask questions....questions...and more questions.

Before looking for Mr. Right, try to rid yourself of desperation. Don’t go looking for Mr. Right, when you are depressed and lonely. It’s like they say; don’t go grocery shopping when you are hungry! You end up buying a lot of items you didn’t really want and spending money that you can’t afford! It’s the same way when you’re looking for Mr. Right. You end up accepting qualities, you really don’t like and some traits you actually hate.

While trying to find Mr. Right, totally avoid the following:

1. The one’s with multiple children by multiple women.
Why? The emotional and financial baggage will be unbearable.

2. Men that refuse to pay child support.
Why? If he refuses to accept responsibility for children he has fathered prior to your
relationship, he will no doubt do the same to children he fathers with you.

3. Men with substance abuse problems, but they fail to acknowledge it.
Why? If, it’s not his problem? Then it’s going to be your problem. Unless you are a substance abuse counselor and enjoy the challenge, run!

Do not try to find Mr. Right at an Alcohol/Drug/Anger Management program.

4. If you ever...ever discover he has a history of domestic violence? Drop him.
Why? Domestic violence is serious. There is a fine line between being hurt...and
accidentally being killed. (Been there...done that! Bought the tee shirt and the hat!)

5. If you think you have found Mr. Right online, but he has a little trouble getting and keeping gainful employment? Re-think it...


6. If his entire family has disowned him, there is probably a good reason, so don’t hang
around long enough to find out why. Mr. Right should be a family man.

You are special, so don’t sell yourself short. Just enjoy life, and wait. You will find your Mr. Right online...or off!